In Search of the Real Bill W.

Bill Wilson, ca. 1939 - The Fix

Bill Wilson was no saint. He smoked like a chimney and acted like a pig—cheating on his loyal wife and demanding a glass of whisky on his deathbed. Working with him was sometimes so difficult that decades after his death, many colleagues were still angry at his behavior. The January 1971 nurse’s logs for his last days at Stepping Stones, the house in Bedford Hills he shared with his wife, Lois, show an unhappy man struggling for breath—he was dying of emphysema—who repeatedly asked for a drink and was irritated when he didn’t get one.

And yet. If there is a special place in heaven reserved for those who permanently change the world for the better, Bill W. is certainly there.

Read more: http://www.thefix.com/content/in-search-of-the-real-bill-w8998

Bill Wilson’s Gospel

Op-Ed Columnist — NYTimes.com

On Dec. 14, 1934, a failed stockbroker named Bill Wilson was struggling with alcoholism at a New York City detox center. It was his fourth stay at the center and nothing had worked. This time, he tried a remedy called the belladonna cure — infusions of a hallucinogenic drug made from a poisonous plant — and he consulted a friend named Ebby Thacher, who told him to give up drinking and give his life over to the service of God.

Wilson was not a believer, but, later that night, at the end of his rope, he called out in his hospital room: “If there is a God, let Him show Himself! I am ready to do anything. Anything!”

As Wilson described it, a white light suffused his room and the presence of God appeared. “It seemed to me, in the mind’s eye, that I was on a mountain and that a wind not of air but of spirit was blowing,” he testified later. “And then it burst upon me that I was a free man.”

Wilson never touched alcohol again….

Bill Wilson’s Gospel

Eminem Rhymes About Addiction & Recovery

Eminem Rhymes About Addiction & Recovery On “Not Afraid” | Get The Latest Hip Hop News, Rap News & Hip Hop Album Sales | HipHopDX

“I just can’t keep living this way,” he rhymes on the track. “So starting today I’m breaking out of this cage / I’m standing up, I’ma face my demons / I’m manning up, I’ma hold my ground / I’ve had enough, now I’m so fed up / Time to put my life together right now.”

Melanie Griffith on finally beating her drink and drug addiction

The 52-year-old actress has been battling her addiction for three decades.

She spoke to Spanish magazine Hola! about finally putting paid to her problems.

The Working Girl star said: ‘I am an alcoholic and an addict and all my life I have fought against this, and I’ve done it well.

‘Now I feel free. I don’t drink, I don’t take pills, nothing, and it’s fantastic, like getting out of prison.’ …

Melanie Griffith on finally beating her drink and drug addiction | Mail Online

Aerosmith’s Steven Tyler enters rehab

Aerosmith’s Steven Tyler enters rehab
Aerosmith singer Steven Tyler has entered a rehabilitation facility to treat an addiction to painkillers his doctor says he has taken to deal with a decade of injuries.

If it’s Thursday, this must be rehab. Gotta give him credit for trying, but like they say, if you’re “tryin’,” you’re dyin’.

“How could she?” Well, I have a theory — Susan Cheever

For years I lived in a drinking family in a drinking world — a world that might have been a lot like Diane Schuler’s world. Booze was my solution. If I was depressed, I drank; if I was celebrating, I drank. I drank whiskey for headaches and beer for hangovers and wine if I was feeling intellectual. Because most people I knew drank more than I did, my drinking was almost invisible. No one thought I had a problem. When my husband and I drove, I was the designated driver, because I drank beer while he mixed vodka martinis in the passenger seat. This seemed like responsible behavior.  “How could she?” Well, I have a theory | Salon Life

Have you read her books?

Royalty ain’t what it’s cracked up to be. Lots of times, it’s just cracked up.

The King and the King of Pop had a good deal more in common than musical innovation.

Elvis, son of an unsuccessful Mississippi sharecropper, came from hard times and rose above them.  He reinvented popular music by successfully combining the three main aspects of American music tradition: mountain or “country” music, popular ballads, and soul.  Not only did he do that, he helped facilitate the frame of mind that led to the civil rights reforms of the ’60′s and ’70′s, by bridging a cultural gap that had — except for jazz — remained largely untouched.  He did that on his own, actively resisted by the musical Old Guard and much of conventional society as well.  If music expresses the humanity of man, then Elvis Presley combined the streams of our musical perception and made us that much closer to being a human race, rather than races.

Michael essentially created a musical genre of his own, combining soul, disco and his own vision into performances that literally changed the face of popular music for a generation.  We’ll never know if  Jackson would have had the same influence had his chance not come at the same time as the birth of music videos and extravaganzas on the stage, but this is not meant to imply that he was just a showman.  He, like Elvis, was a product of a traumatic childhood, and that is reflected in the nuances of his songwriting, his production values, and — most certainly — in the latter half of his professional career.  His humanity, its image distorted but not beyond recognition, came through in his work.

Perhaps the forces that shape musical royalty — even celebrity in general — are fated to become the means of their downfall, as well as their muse. Continue reading