Romancing the Relapse: Relationships in early recovery

One of the first things we hear in recovery, both in treatment and around the rooms of the support groups, is “No new relationships in the first year.”  If it’s not one of the first things we hear, it’s certainly one of the first things that get our attention.

That’s hardly surprising.  Emotions that have been suppressed by alcohol and other drugs are suddenly bubbling to the surface with none of the edges knocked off.   Add to that the fact that we’re feeling at loose ends, with all that time on our hands that we formerly spent using, and the fact that we really don’t want to face life directly yet, and we’re ripe for distraction.  Since rehab romances are one of the most common issues in early recovery, it crosses our minds, “Why not, as long as the other person is in recovery too?  We’ll have so much in common!”  Read more..

One thought on “Romancing the Relapse: Relationships in early recovery”

  1. Hello, First time I have found your blog and its powerful. I am not an alcoholic am actually a trainee professional within alcohol and drugs over in the UK. I also have my own website called myroutetohelp http://www.myroutetohelp.co.uk I enjoy reading your articles as its something I encourage on my own website. Take care

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