This is such an important article for every addict (really, everyone in a relationship) to read that I’m going to leave it stuck on the top of the page for a few days to make sure all four of my faithful readers have a chance to see it.  Scroll or check the sideboard for more WMS? goodness.

“John Gottman began gathering his most critical findings in 1986, when he set up “The Love Lab” with his colleague Robert Levenson at the University of Washington. Gottman and Levenson brought newlyweds into the lab and watched them interact with each other….

When the researchers analyzed the data they gathered on the couples, they saw clearly that success and failure came down to two things….”

Read more: http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/06/happily-ever-after/372573/#ixzz3JHW79hzs