Right? Or Happy?

On how many interesting relationships have I missed out by labeling others as — well — others?  How much common ground have I missed because of my unskillful ability to hear what others were really saying?

When I think of people with prejudices, how much of the judging is mine?

How many have I pushed away because of what were really superficial differences in points of view?

How interested am I — really — in learning more about the world and the people in it?  Enough to keep my mouth shut and listen, and then find something I can agree with, rather than automatically disagreeing with those…others?

Sometimes I seem to be improving in those areas, slowly but surely, although I have a long way to go.  How are you doing?