Most of us wouldn’t stick our hands into a bag of rattlesnakes to find out if they’d bite.
If you don’t want to slip, stay out of slippery places.
Heard around the rooms
No plan survives contact with the enemy.
Ageless Military Adage
It is in the nature of human beings to try out new things. We hate change, but we love discovery. While this has led us to great advances, it can also get us into big trouble. Another adage that comes to mind is “Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.” Continue reading “Slippery Places”
A military adage goes, “No plan ever survives contact with the enemy.”
So many of us test ourselves by taking unnecessary chances, and discover that the idea applies to addicts as well as soldiers.
I can’t count the times I’ve heard shares in various fellowships like this: “I just had one beer, but I figured since I’d slipped anyway I might as well have another.” (Substitute pertinent acting out for “beer”.)
All too often, these sorts of remarks are heard from folks who were “out there” for much longer than just an evening or a couple of days, most often for months or years, and they all say it got worse than before. Because the next morning Continue reading ““Slips””
Every addiction, without exception, has “triggers,” situations, people, places and/or things that have the potential to make us want to use. Well, there’s an old saying in the rooms: “Just because the gun has a trigger, it doesn’t mean you have to pull it.”
I hear folks in meetings say things like, I went to such-and-such (did such-and-such, saw such-and-such) and it triggered me and I relapsed. Let me digress here and tell you a little story. Continue reading “Triggers – – Part 1”